Happy Mother's Day!
May. 11th, 2008 06:24 pmFor all the moms (and moms-to-be)... Happy Mother's Day!
Went to visit my parents' grave today... something I hadn't done in quite some time. There isn't really any excuse either... it's either been due to being extremely lazy or being very tired. It's not that I don't want to go, but it's one of those things that never gets done unless I put my mind to it... like cleaning the house, but that's another story. :P
I remember once thinking that I would sorely miss my mom if and when she passed away, but that hasn't been the case. I still miss her, but I now look upon that with a sense of nostalgia and -- especially today -- reflect on how she and my dad raised me and how I turned out (what happened?) Seriously, though, I've been able to hold my own ever since I left home -- and Hawaii -- back in 1992. Now that I'm back home, however, I think it'll be tough(er) to leave again since not only is there no place like home, you really can't beat Hawaii's beauty and its culture (though the latter is changing to become more like the mainland).
Perhaps having adopted a cat 2.5 years ago (December 2005) has helped change my perspective too. When I was growing up with 3 cats (Kitty, Tiger, Fluffy) and one dog (Snoopy), I was never fully responsible for them since Snoopy and Kitty were already around when I was born, and Kitty was Tiger and Fluffy's mom. The cats were easy -- only one cat (Fluffy) ever saw a vet, and the dog only required periodic baths and scooping up his leavings. But now that I have Lani, and am fully responsible for seeing to her well-being, which includes providing food, water, clean litter and even playtime, perhaps I can appreciate (a little) more what it feels like to be taking care of someone.
But I digress and ramble. Hope everyone has/had a good Mother's Day!
Went to visit my parents' grave today... something I hadn't done in quite some time. There isn't really any excuse either... it's either been due to being extremely lazy or being very tired. It's not that I don't want to go, but it's one of those things that never gets done unless I put my mind to it... like cleaning the house, but that's another story. :P
I remember once thinking that I would sorely miss my mom if and when she passed away, but that hasn't been the case. I still miss her, but I now look upon that with a sense of nostalgia and -- especially today -- reflect on how she and my dad raised me and how I turned out (what happened?) Seriously, though, I've been able to hold my own ever since I left home -- and Hawaii -- back in 1992. Now that I'm back home, however, I think it'll be tough(er) to leave again since not only is there no place like home, you really can't beat Hawaii's beauty and its culture (though the latter is changing to become more like the mainland).
Perhaps having adopted a cat 2.5 years ago (December 2005) has helped change my perspective too. When I was growing up with 3 cats (Kitty, Tiger, Fluffy) and one dog (Snoopy), I was never fully responsible for them since Snoopy and Kitty were already around when I was born, and Kitty was Tiger and Fluffy's mom. The cats were easy -- only one cat (Fluffy) ever saw a vet, and the dog only required periodic baths and scooping up his leavings. But now that I have Lani, and am fully responsible for seeing to her well-being, which includes providing food, water, clean litter and even playtime, perhaps I can appreciate (a little) more what it feels like to be taking care of someone.
But I digress and ramble. Hope everyone has/had a good Mother's Day!